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He vanishes for 3 days. Then sends a perfectly normal text as if no time passed. No apology, no explanation, just "hey what's up?" This pattern is maddening because it keeps you in limbo -- not ignored enough to move on, not engaged enough to feel secure.
This is the most common reason. You are not his priority, but he likes having you available. He texts when his first-choice plans fall through, when he is bored, or when he wants validation.
People with avoidant attachment styles pull away when things feel too close. The 3-day disappearance is their way of regulating emotional distance. It is not personal, but it is their problem to solve -- not yours to accommodate.
Work, family, mental health -- life can genuinely get in the way. The difference between this and disinterest: he acknowledges it. "Sorry, work has been insane this week" is worlds apart from pretending nothing happened.
Set your own standard. If 3-day gaps do not work for you, say so: "I'm looking for someone who communicates more consistently. Is that something you can do?" His answer -- or lack of one -- gives you everything you need to make a decision.
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