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You act like a couple. You text every day, go on dates, maybe even sleep together. But when someone asks "what are you?" the answer is "I don't know" or "we're just seeing where things go." That is a situationship -- all the emotional labor of a relationship with none of the security. If you are also wondering whether he even likes you, the overlap is not a coincidence.
If you have been consistently seeing someone for more than two months and there is no conversation about exclusivity or commitment, you are in a situationship. Relationships that are meant to become official do so relatively quickly.
Every time you bring up "what are we?" he changes the subject, says "let's just enjoy this," or accuses you of pressuring him. A man who wants to be with you will not resist defining it.
You have never met his friends. He does not mention you on social media. You exist in a bubble that only includes the two of you. This is intentional -- he is keeping his options open.
He never makes plans more than a day in advance. "Want to come over tonight?" but never "Let's do something this weekend." You are convenient, not planned for.
A relationship should add stability to your life, not uncertainty. If you are constantly wondering where you stand, reading into every text, and feeling anxious between hangouts, the lack of clarity is the problem.
Have the conversation one time, clearly: "I like you and I want to know if this is going somewhere. I need a clear answer." If his answer is anything other than "yes, I want this too," that is your answer. Vague responses like "I'm not ready" or "can we just see where it goes" after months together mean: he does not want a relationship with you, but he likes having you around.
You deserve someone who is sure about you. Not someone who needs 6 months to "figure it out."
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